Podcast

EPISODE 33

It Can't All Be Great. "Could Have Been Better Sex Stories."

EPISODE 32

Wanting to Want it. Addressing Difficulties With Low Desire.

EPISODE 31

Adventures in Anal. The Backdoor for Beginners.

EPISODE 30

You've Got Baggage. I've Got Baggage. We've All Got Baggage. Unpacking Your Past To Improve Your Present.

EPISODE 29

Peekaboo I See You. Fun with Voyeurism and Exhibitionism That Wont Get You Arrested.

EPISODE 28

Relax. Everyone is Not Having More Fun Than You.

EPISODE 27

How Kinky Do I Need to Be to Get a Date in This Town? Or is Vanilla Still a Good Flavor?

EPISODE 26

Finding God in Missionary. Refurbishing an old Classic.

EPISODE 25

The Fair State Stalemate. How the Quest for Fairness Can Torpedo Relationship.

EPISODE 24

The Great Pornography Puzzle. Traversing the Rocky Terrain of Sexually Explicit Material

EPISODE 23

The Break Up Shake-Up. Tips for Ending Relationships Like a Grown Ass Adult.

EPISODE 22

Flying Solo. Making Masturbation an Event That Stands on Its Own!

EPISODE 21

The Joy Of Sexting. Keeping It Fun Classy And Consensual.

EPISODE 20

The Freedom of Being Filthy. How to Talk Dirty.

EPISODE 19

Hide And Seek. The Complex Game Of Privacy Versus Secrecy In Relationships.

EPISODE 18

Chemistry – You Can't Force It. Just Cause It Looks Good on Paper Doesn’t Mean It’s Gonna Be.

EPISODE 17

The Dildo Dilemma: Don't Worry a Sex Toy Isn't Going to Replace You.

EPISODE 16

Saying "Yay" To the Three-Way

EPISODE 15

Weeknight Sex: Get It In Where You Can Fit It In.

EPISODE 14

Not Everyone's Gonna Like You. Giving Less F@$k's About Romantic And Sexual Rejection.

EPISODE 13

What Are You Doing In There? Addressing Anxiety About Your Partner's Masturbation Habits. Including Pornography Use.

EPISODE 12

What Are You Doing In There? Addressing Anxiety About Your Partner's Masturbation Habits. Including Pornography Use.

EPISODE 11

What Are You Doing In There? Addressing Anxiety About Your Partner's Masturbation Habits. Including Pornography Use.

EPISODE 10

What Are You Doing In There? Addressing Anxiety About Your Partner's Masturbation Habits. Including Pornography Use.

EPISODE 9

The Lost Art of Fingering - Just Cause High School is Over, Doesn’t Mean This Should Be.

EPISODE 8

Sexual Fantasy. A Thought Is Just A Thought.

EPISODE 7

Slippery When Wet...Shower Sex! Good Idea, or Bad Idea?

EPISODE 6

I Guess I'll Have Sex With You....The Difference Between Obligation and Willingness In Sex and Why It Matters.

EPISODE 5

Show Me Yours and I'll Show You Mine. Having Fun With Mutual Masterbation!

EPISODE 4

The Hookup Skill Set: Getting Ass by Having Some Class.

This week, the University of Pleasure focuses on the topic of casual sex.  Join Dr. Tera Jansen and Jeremiah James as they discuss commonly encountered struggles and issues when navigating casual sex with others, including misconceptions regarding casual sex, skills for communicating your interests and intentions with others, and negotiating casual sexual encounters while feeling safe in the process.

EPISODE 3

Online Dating: Better Adjust Those Expectations. It’s a Numbers Game.  

Join in for the University of Pleasure’s newest episode, where Dr. Tera Jansen and Jeremiah James discuss commonly experienced struggles in the online dating world, including the unrealistic expectations that many of us may set.  They provide tips and tools for more effectively navigating online dating, as well as consider some first date etiquette (hint: maybe don’t talk about your ex).

EPISODE 2

Condom Sense and Decision Making: Rules of Etiquette, Strategies for Success, and Understanding Why Your Best Intentions Sometimes Fall Apart

Join Dr. Tera Jansen and Jeremiah James as they deep dive into the topics of condom use and sexual decision making.  This week’s episode focuses on tips and tools for having more pleasurable condom experiences; the tricky cocktail of age, erectile dysfunction and condom use; and the impact of sexual arousal on decision making.

EPISODE 1

Sexual Failure: The Importance of Embracing the Absurd, Awkward, and Ridiculous.

Join Dr. Tera Jansen and Jeremiah James on their inaugural University of Pleasure podcast. This week’s episode looks at the topic of sexual failure and finding ways to get back on track when sexual experiences, situations, or expectations have gone awry.

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Hello, World.

mission

Struggles around sex and sexuality often come from common misconceptions and inadequate education.  For many, this can lead to stress, anxiety, and totally unrealistic expectations about their sexual lives and experiences.

Our goal is to provide accurate information and education about sex that is entertaining, accessible, useful, and allows for thoughtful discussion about issues that impact such an important part of our lives.

So really, our mission at the University of Pleasure is to use sexual conversation to build a happier nation.